{"product_id":"come-together-the-science-and-art-of-creating-lasting-sexual-connections","title":"Come Together: The Science (and Art!) of Creating Lasting Sexual Connections","description":"\u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eNEW YORK TIMES\u003c\/i\u003e BESTSELLER - From the author of \u003ci\u003eCome as You Are \u003c\/i\u003eand co-author of \u003ci\u003eBurnout\u003c\/i\u003e comes an illuminating exploration of how to maintain a happy sex life in a long-term relationship. \u003c\/b\u003e \u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cb\u003e\"Emily Nagoski is a national treasure--helping us all understand how to finally build true, joyful, confident sex lives.\"--Glennon Doyle, author of \u003ci\u003eUntamed\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e \u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003eIn \u003ci\u003eCome as You Are, \u003c\/i\u003eEmily Nagoski, PhD, revolutionized the way we think about women's sexuality. Now, in \u003ci\u003eCome Together, \u003c\/i\u003e Nagoski takes on a fundamentally misunderstood subject: sex in long-term relationships. \u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e Most of us struggle at some point to maintain a sexual connection with our partner\/s or spouse. And many of us are given not-very-good advice on what to do about it. In this book, Nagoski dispels the myths we've been taught about sex--for instance, the belief that sexual satisfaction and desire are highest at the beginning of a relationship and that they inevitably decline the longer that relationship lasts. Nagoski assures us that's not true. \u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e So, what is true? \u003ci\u003eCome Together\u003c\/i\u003e isn't about how much we want sex, or how often we're having it; it's about whether we \u003ci\u003elike\u003c\/i\u003e the sex we're having. Nagoski breaks down the obstacles that impede us from enjoying sex--from stress and body image to relationship difficulties and gendered beliefs about how sex \"should\" be--and presents the best ways to overcome them. You'll learn: \u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e- that \"spontaneous desire\" is not the kind of desire to strive for if you want to have great sex for decades\u003cbr\u003e- vocabulary for talking with partners about ways to get in \"the mood\" and how to not take it personally when \"the mood\" is nowhere to be found\u003cbr\u003e- how to understand your own and your partner's \"emotional floorplan,\" so that you have a blueprint for how to get to a sexy state of mind \u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003eWritten with scientific rigor, humor, and compassion, Nagoski shows us what great sex can look like, how to create it in our \u003ci\u003eown\u003c\/i\u003e lives, and what to do when struggles arise.\u003cdiv style=\"display:none\"\u003eISBN-10: 0593500830\u003cbr\u003eISBN-13: 9780593500835\u003cbr\u003eAuthor: Nagoski, Emily\u003cbr\u003ePublisher: Ballantine Books\u003cbr\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e","brand":"Ballantine Books","offers":[{"title":"Paperback (Feb 2025)","offer_id":46079808766149,"sku":"9780593500835","price":19.0,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0708\/6414\/2533\/files\/9780593500835.jpg?v=1776031951","url":"https:\/\/www.inveni.store\/products\/come-together-the-science-and-art-of-creating-lasting-sexual-connections","provider":"Inveni","version":"1.0","type":"link"}